
Tony & Joy met 8 or 9 years ago at a friend’s house. Tony was there to see his friend after making a connection with her at a party, but ended sitting all alone because he didn’t know anyone else there. Being the group’s social butterfly, Joy sat with Tony and chatted with him for a while to make him feel more comfortable. Joy immediately felt a connection with Tony, but since Joy respected her friendship with her friend, she didn’t want to jeopardize a potential relationship between him and her friend, and put the idea of Tony aside. Joy also happened to be developing something with someone else, so the timing was poor for both of them.
Tony and Joy’s friend ended up dating and living together for several months before they parted ways completely, and Joy thought she’d never see Tony again. The friendship Joy had with Tony’s former girlfriend dissolved, and they too parted ways. As luck would have it, about a year after that, a group of Tony’s friends moved into the same apartment complex tha t Joy was living in. Joy received a call from a number she didn’t recognize, and imagine to Joy’s surprise when she answered and it was Tony! Tony was having a birthday party, and thought about Joy and her old friends and roommates – who’d become friends with Tony’s friends by then – and wanted to bring them all together again. Joy went, and luckily, they still had that old spark and were both available for a relationship this time around. Tony confessed to Joy that he’d also had some feelings for her while he was with his old girlfriend, but also didn’t want to cause any drama. Joy won’t necessarily say that we were “destined” for each other, but there were certainly forces at work behind the scenes that they couldn’t have dreamed of.
For their first real “date,” Tony took Joy to a concert that he’d already asked someone else to attend with him weeks before he’d gotten back in touch with her. Joy explained to Tony that she understood the situation and that it would be OK for Tony to go with the other girl because she didn’t want Tony to be put into an awkward position. Tony took Joy anyway. That one gesture showed Joy how much he cared about her feelings, and that she was very special.
Only a few months into their relationship, one of his friends told Tony that “if he messed this up, he would kill him.” Tony told Joy about that later that night, and Joy’s heart secretly warmed. When you’ve got their friends too, you know it’s something special!
Since then, they have faced their share of ups and downs. Tony supported Joy when she was laid off from a prominent music store that closed. Joy helped Tony to transfer from ACC to UT when he wanted something more. Tony motivated and encouraged Joy when she was scared about going back to school at UT to finish her degree. Joy held his hand when his aunt, who was scheduled to photograph their wedding, passed away unexpectedly. They have been together for about 7 years now, and know that after this long, they can face anything together. They are best friends, confidants, and each other’s favorite critic. They are at their best when they are together and can’t wait for it to get even better.
Here are some pictures from their engagement session. There is so much more that I will be posting soon. I was just so excited to put these few up. Enjoy!!



